You will never look at a cup of coffee the same again. when you open your mind and see things from a different perspective:

  A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how
things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it
and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed
as soon as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

  Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water. In
the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs and the last
she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a
word.

  In about twenty minutes, she turned off the burners. She fished the
carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed
them in a bowl. Then, she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.
Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me, what do you see?" "Carrots,
Eggs, and Coffee" was the reply. She brought her closer and asked her to
feel the carrots. She did and noted that they got soft. She then asked her
to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the
hard boiled egg. Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The daughter
smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, "What's the
point, mother
  Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same
adversity - boiling water - but each reacted differently. The carrot went
in strong, hard and unrelenting. However after being subjected to the
boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile, its
outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But, after sitting through
the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were
unique, however. After they were in the boiling water they had changed the
water. "Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on
your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean 


  Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong but with
pain and adversity, do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength? Am I
the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did
I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship
or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look
the same, but on the inside I am bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and
hardened heart? Or, am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes
the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water
gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean,
when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation
around you. When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest,
do you elevate to another level

راستش خيلي فكر كردم كه من كدومش هستم و فكر مي كنم كه تخم مرغ بهترين گزينه باشه چون خيلي حساسم و در مشكلات به شدت شكننده و حساس تر مي شم.